There is no single government-set national price for assisted living, memory care, board and care, or in-home custodial care. Private providers set their own rates, and total cost depends on location, housing, assessed care needs, and separately billed services. This guide does not repeat market ranges that cannot be traced to the official primary sources below.
Use it to build a complete quote, understand what public programs actually cover, and identify questions that require an individual eligibility decision.
Build the true monthly cost
Ask every provider for a written estimate that separates:
- Room and board: housing, meals, utilities, and housekeeping.
- Personal care: assistance with bathing, dressing, eating, mobility, toileting, or supervision.
- Clinical services: medication management, nursing, therapies, or other health services.
- One-time charges: deposits, assessments, community fees, and move-in costs.
- Recurring extras: supplies, transportation, laundry, salon services, and optional programs.
- Future changes: reassessment frequency, care-level changes, annual increases, and required notice.
Compare quotes based on the same resident assessment. A published base rate is not a meaningful comparison if required care is priced separately.
Medicare: limited skilled coverage
Medicare does not cover custodial nursing-home care when that is the only care needed. That distinction matters for assisted living, memory care, and long-term help with activities of daily living.
Part A may cover short-term care in a Medicare-certified skilled nursing facility when all requirements are met. Under Medicare's skilled nursing facility rules:
- coverage is limited to 100 days in each benefit period;
- Original Medicare usually requires a qualifying inpatient hospital stay (the “3-day rule”);
- in 2026, Original Medicare lists $0 daily coinsurance for days 1–20 after the applicable Part A deductible, $217 per day for days 21–100, and all costs after day 100.
“Up to 100 days” is not a guaranteed 100-day stay. The person must continue meeting Medicare's skilled-care requirements.
Medicaid: institutional care and state HCBS programs
Medicaid rules and programs vary by state. Federal Medicaid guidance explains that institutional long-term-care benefits include room and board, while other Medicaid services generally may not include room and board.
States can also operate Section 1915(c) home- and community-based services waivers. Depending on the approved state program and individual care plan, services may include case management, personal care, home-health aide, adult-day health, and respite.
Do not treat “Medicaid accepted” as a complete cost answer. Confirm:
- financial and functional eligibility;
- enrollment or wait-list status;
- the approved service plan;
- whether the provider participates;
- room-and-board responsibility and any patient liability.
VA pension and Aid and Attendance
VA Aid and Attendance eligibility can add payments to a VA pension for qualified Veterans and survivors who meet care-related criteria. It is not a universal flat monthly benefit.
VA calculates pension using the claimant's applicable maximum annual pension rate and countable income. The current VA pension rate table should be used for an individual estimate; copied monthly “maximums” can be misleading because dependents, income, and deductible medical expenses affect payment.
Match the quote to the kind of care
The Administration for Community Living describes long-term care as a range of services and supports for personal-care needs, not one facility type or one payer. Keep the housing decision, the care plan, and the payment decision separate while comparing options.
For each quote, write down:
- where the services will be delivered;
- which daily tasks the resident needs help with now;
- which needs would require a reassessment or move;
- who provides each service and which entity sends the bill;
- the earliest service start date and any minimum stay;
- cancellation, discharge, deposit-refund, and rate-change terms; and
- the family’s plan if public-benefit approval is delayed or denied.
This produces a comparison based on the same care assumptions. A lower housing rate can still lead to a higher total when personal care, medication assistance, transportation, or supplies are separate. Conversely, a bundled rate should be checked against the written service plan so the family knows exactly which needs are included.
Verify the provider independently
Medicare Care Compare provides federal comparison information for Medicare-certified providers, including nursing homes, home-health agencies, and hospices. It does not replace state licensing research for assisted-living or other residential settings that are not Medicare-certified.
For local help, the Administration for Community Living’s Eldercare Locator connects older adults and families with community services and can be reached online or at 1-800-677-1116. Use that connection to identify the relevant state or local aging agency, then confirm the provider’s license, complaint process, and program participation with the responsible government office.
Save the source URL and access date with every eligibility or coverage note. Public-program rules and benefit amounts can change, and a provider’s participation in one program does not establish participation in another.
Questions that prevent surprise charges
- What is the total due at move-in?
- Which services in the current assessment are included?
- Which services are billed separately?
- How often is care reassessed?
- What notice is provided before a rate or care-level increase?
- Which public programs does this specific provider participate in?
- What remains resident-paid after insurance or public benefits?
- Is short-term skilled care delivered in a Medicare-certified facility?
Official sources
- Medicare: Nursing home care
- Medicare: Skilled nursing facility care
- Medicare: Care Compare
- Medicaid.gov: Institutional long-term care
- Medicaid.gov: Section 1915(c) HCBS
- Administration for Community Living: Long-term-care planning
- Administration for Community Living: Eldercare Locator
- VA: Aid and Attendance eligibility
- VA: Current pension rates
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